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Hello Martin,
I have been browsing through your site (and
links) for the last couple of day. An enjoyable and interesting
read. I found your site during a search for 'meme' info. Like yourself
I have an 'amateurs' interest in the 'big questions'.
I have one problem with Darwinism and evolutionary
theory. Before there were any life-forms in the universe the universe
contained the potential for life-forms. Woven into the fabric of
the universe was the potential for human beings and more specifically
the potential for Martin Willetts. You could imagine a universe
with no potential for human beings, no matter how favourable the
environment. Evolutionary theory explains the mechanisms for developing
this potential. It doesn't explain why the universe should be structured
in such a way. Any thoughts ?
Best Wishes
Ken Glenwright
Gateshead, England
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Hi
Stumbled across your website its an interesting
read. Haven't gotten round to a half of it yet of course :) But
one of the first things I read was the section about your desire
to give your children an athiest up
bringing and I thought you might be interested to hear from someone
who has had an athiest upbringing.
I am 18 years old and both my parents were
athiests. That is athiest
by the dictionary definition, they didn't belong to any of the athiest
organisations and while my father certainly had very strong opinions
and my mother was and still is not the slightest bit religious,
they also never lectured me at length about the evils of religion.
They simply didn't mention religion to me except in answer to my
questions such as 'what are churches for?'. And of course I grew
up and still live in north london which is about as secular and
multi-cultural as you can get. It is interesting that when you get
a load of religions and the church of england, which hardly counts,
dumped together and left for a couple of generations no-one believes
anything any more and religion becomes entirely divorced from any
kind of actual belief.
But I agree that education is very important.
My parents were both teachers and I was well educated and taught
to think for my self. However in regard to myths such as the toothfairy
and father christmas....these
things are also important so long as you teach them as myths. Without
my love of stories, which i never once considered to be fact, I
would not be half the person I am today. The important thing is
not to avoid them but simply never claim that they are fact. In
fact now i think of it my love of stories was what made me treat
religious stories as fiction in the same way. Things like father
christmas never made me believe in myths.
Don't know if that's of interest to you,
but there it is.
Tom Slatter
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First point. Athiest,
one of my best keywords. Coming late to the subject of atheism
I have very little chance of getting a lot of hits from trying to
use the correct spelling in my keywords, although I still try, for
obvious reasons. While trying to avoid coming across as a teacher
(I tried but failed the actual teaching bit) please bear with me.
Atheism, think of the word and the meaning.
a- without, the-god, ism.
Just remember the heart of the word is the from the Greek for god,
theos. I didn't have a classical education, I have had to
teach myself these important things. I am coming to understand now
that Latin and Greek would probably have been more use to me than
French, seeing as I haven't enough fluency to read a French book
or watch a French film and I have never been to France. Zut alors.
Another way to remember is to take the piss out of the common misspelling;
I'm athy, he's athier, but she's the athiest!
Athiest is silly, unless we can come
up with a good definition for the word athy.
Of course a better strategy is to use a spell checker, teach it
your special words and use it all the time.
I have a particularly jaundiced view of all fiction, a very puritanical
view that basically fiction is a form of telling lies and therefore
sinful. That is probably my problem. I suppose as long as all stories
are clearly explained as being stories no harm is done, the problems
come with the idea that revealing them as untrue "takes away the
magic of childhood". People lose their jobs in US TV for saying
Santa Claus isn't real, that
is sick. I am teaching my children about cartoons, so they see them
on two levels, as drawings and as fictional events forming an entertaining
story. It is not easy, and some children of low intelligence would
have problems with it, that is why any "You do believe in fairies,
don't you?" stuff is so potentially harmful. No adult should ever
say that a fictional story is true. Confusing fact and fiction is
a big issue, nobody should do anything to make that line blurred.
Have you read Jack Higgins's novel The Eagle has Landed,
that kind of thing, saying that this is true, it happened to me,
and going on to write a fictional story is obscene, is any
of it true? When did the fiction start, when did it finish? Can
any of it be regarded as true or is the whole thing fiction? I can't
disentangle it, and I am bright, what chance do thickos have with
it?
Since I wrote that article my son (age 6) has started to talk
a lot more about God and heaven, but I detect my own "all or nothing"
type approach, his Christianity is strong, like cast iron, and probably
very brittle. I still have said nothing to him about my own beliefs.
I have no worries about him. He is on the side of right. He has
a couple of Thunderbirds dolls, at night his Scott Tracy doll keeps
The Hood covered with his pistol, note, he doesn't shoot him, he
has arrested the baddie. Thunderbirds is a good role model, very
little violence and the good guys save lives and property, not destroy
it. I hope he continues to have a good sense of right and wrong,
it is vitally important. Belief in right and wrong does not require
a god to fear, morality should come from within.
Martin
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Hi
Thanks for the spelling tip. Its one of those
things that you know you keep doing wrong but still you keep making
the mistake. I have the same trouble with the word necessary you
know. Still I'm sure I'll be getting atheism right more often now....
You know I have no choice but to disagree
with the idea that all fiction has to have big signposts on it saying
'this is not true, its just an entertaining lie, thats all....'
Let Jack Higgins start off claiming the story's true, anyone with
half a brain is gonna work out its fiction and if people don't get
it well, pardon my french, but sod 'em. I think it was Pablo Picasso
(i could be wrong) who said 'Art is the lie that reveals a truth'.
And this is entirely true. If someone tells you an inspirational
tale, perhaps the story of an innocent life being saved from the
bloodshed of war or some such thing, and you can't be sure whether
it is true or just something that was made up, surely if you get
same level of inspiration it doesn't matter. Fiction is lying, but
it is harmless, or should be, it is entertainment and if done right
it is art. In fact some ideas and emotions can only be expressed
through fiction.
Of course its stupid to fire someone for
revealing the myth, but stories are an important and necessary part
of growing up. They are a stretching of the wings of imagination,
without which we'd be completely lost. And in a very important way
stories are true. Not for the events and people they describe but
for what they have to say about the human condition (if you'll forgive
the use of such a cring-inducing phrase), the metaphorical truth.
And yeah, metaphors are lies to, but they ain't inherently sinful...
As for the parts about your children......well
I've no experience of children, apart from having been one and having
had a secular upbringing I must admit the very concept of believing
in God or similar ideas is one that I still do not comprehend. But
I would be suprised if your son has a real belief in god, any more
than kids have a belief in father christmas and all those other
little lies we get told to prepare us for the big lies (things like
love, honour, certainty safety......not too cynical a thing to say
is it?). Its more likely to be just another evidence of him stretching
his intellectual wings, to return to my earlier metaphor, don't
you think?
Tom Slatter
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Must admit I'm not the most computer literate
person in the world, I'm only a lowly musician after all.... Anyhoo:
Fiction
I wonder if you have seen the film Interview
with the Vampire or more to the point read the series of books
that the film was taken from. This books are, with the occasional
exception, each a fictional biography of one vampire or another.
But in a similar way to how you described the Jack Higgins novel
(I haven't actually read it) these books do not implicitly state
that they are fiction and the also talk about the other books in
the series as if they had been published, as if the fictional world
were the same as the real world. Of course these books are of a
different genre to Jack Higgins stuff, I would be suprised if anyone
took them as fact, but that blurring of the lines is an aide to
the suspension of disbelief. It is playful, as if the author is
saying, with a half smile, 'of course its real, I saw all this'
and both parties know that isn't the case, but still you go along
with it. The mixing of reality and fiction is very important, and
of course Jack Higgins may very well be a fictional character in
himself, lots of authors create them. I guess its similar to musicians
like David Bowie, where the whole media persona, not just the person
onstage but the person being interviewed and appearing on radio
and television, is a character played by the actor. A fictional
creation used to portray a fictional creation, a layering of myth
and misdirection.
Of course it should be pointed out that the
examples I have given are very different to your examples in that
they belong to the fantasy genre, both Ann Rices Vampire books and
David Bowie's onstage creations are fantastical items that could
not possiby happen in the real world. They do not need to state
that they are placed 'over the hills and far away', because the
audience already knows it. From what you've told me of Jack Higgins,
his work is set in a fictional version of the real world and the
events described could plausibly have happened. That kind of fiction
is a very different thing.... maybe there should be health warnings,
I'd certainly like to see them before every episode of Eastenders,
but not because i consider them dangerous, merely very very dull.
The bottom line i guess is trying to decide
who has the responsibility to point out the lines between fiction
and reality. i don't see why that responsibility should lie with
anyone but the audience. We should be able to work out for ourselves
what is real and what is not. Maybe parents should be deciding for
their children, but us adults should be bright enough to work this
stuff out ourselves.
French
Why the phrase 'pardon my french'?... I think
its just a bit of left over racism. The english people have never
really like the french and the french have never really like us.
Here's a section from the book The English: a portrait of a people
by Jeremy Paxman
'Obscene drawing were 'french postcards'.
Prostitutes were 'french consular Guard', who could well be wearing
wide legged underwear - French knickers. If a man used their services,
he would 'take French lessons'. If he caught syphilis as a result
he contracted 'French pox', 'French marbles', 'French aches'......
The list goes on..... racist but I guess
its harmless and apparently the french have just as many little
terms about the english.
Myths, stories, lies and metaphor
I would disagree that blurring the lines
is a cheap and tacky trick, sometimes it can be fun, cos no-one
really believes, everyone knows its just for fun. What would be
wrong i guess is if someone set out with the deliberate intention
of decieving someone. If Fiction were deliberately presenting as
Fact without the unspoken agreement between author and audience,
something that i would suggest politicians do all the time, then
there would be grounds for complaint. And indeed action, possibly
involving whips and sharp prodding things.
Children's Belief in God
I may be only a few years away from childhood
myself but I must admit that while i can get my head around the
concept of god and an afterlife i really do not understand how one
could believe them to be the truth. It baffles me. I have not encountered
yet a sensible reason to consider them anything more than interesting
fictions and (perhaps useful) metaphors and I could not contemplate
accepting an concept as fact without being presented with good argument
and/or corroborating evidence.
I have always been very troubled with people
involving children in religion without letting them decide for themselves.
I have always considered the Jewish practise of circumsion a barbaric
and disgusting thing to do to someone who can't understand what
happening let alone object, and even taking a child to church and
telling them 'this is true, this is the way the world is', is simply
wrong. It is the sort of thing that should remain a personal decision
for a mature person, just like sexuality, political leaning and
all those other 'adult' concepts.
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I think we have done fiction and myth to death, we do not agree
completely but the difference is slight.
On the subject of racism pickled into the language what about that
other maligned nation, the Dutch?
Dutch bargain-Dutch courage- Dutch treat
There is a strong hint there that the Dutch are a nation of drunks.
You missed French leave, the kind of leave a Frenchman takes when
visiting his whore when he should be on guard duty. I suppose it
beats being a sheep shagger who leaves town when he loses a bet.
But then the French think of us as homosexuals who enjoy spanking.
Syphilis was always known by some foreign name, the pox was always
spread largely by foreigners, if the lexicographers of the whole
of Europe are to be believed.
Circumcision is truly barbaric,
as you say.
Is teaching children about religion an evil thing in itself? An
interesting idea. Is indoctrination a form of child
abuse? It is
difficult to say. It would be hard to draw a distinct line between
religion, culture and other learning, so that we could tell for
sure where passing on information shades into socialization and
where that shades into indoctrination and where that shades into
psychological abuse. We can see the difference between the extremes
of that scale but the adjacent concepts are very blurry. It makes
it very difficult to be able to stand up and say that people are
wrong to terrify their children with the prospect of devils toasting
them if they masturbate or
say "bloody" because the parents can play it as simply teaching
a moral example from a legitimate religious belief. I don't suppose
we will ever be able to make a clear stand against religion until
we can get the idea widely accepted that religion and morality can
and should be separate.
Maybe we will be able to sort it all out by the end of the current
millennium.
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